Defy Lifestyle Club

Had a WONDERFUL TIME at DEFY last night. 8/5/23

To those who’ve never been to Defy, I would highly recommend visiting. The location is small but not uncomfortably so. It feels very cozy and intimate. The decor is very nice and bright in all the right places without being overly bright. A lot of care was taken in the renovation of the location (which is under new management) and it shows.

Square footage wise I would say that it’s less that 1/2 of the size of the main area in Trapeze. The bar is a decent size and there’s space to sit on all sides. There is a second bar located in the back play area with ample seating.

The dance floor is rather small but makes sense given the size of the establishment. It has a full wall mirror for watching your sexy partner (and other peoples sexy partners) dance. Along with a stripper pole.

You will need to walk through the locker room to get to the play area. The locker room isn’t terribly large but has what looks to be enough space for people to get changed without having to trip over each other too much.

I was actually impressed with the play room. It is equal in size to the main area which is nice. It doesn’t give the impression that people will be stacked on top of each other. It has 4-5 large play beds in the open area with 1-2 smaller couches. There’s a group shower with glass walls for viewing which is a very cool and novel idea. There are 3 private rooms with approximately queen sized areas to play on and a large room with 2 large play beds (a bit bigger than those in the private rooms).

The proprietor/general manager Arnold was EXTREMELY ACCOMMODATING and took time out to give every guest a tour, would stop in from time to time to check in and make sure everything was okay and in general was a great host. The staff (bartenders, wait staff, door staff) were all pleasant as well.

They have a very small buffet (more like several food platters laid out on a buffet table). It’s really just finger foods and is not comparable to the buffet at someplace like Trapeze but better than Miami Velvet which has NO food for snacking at all.

This place is relatively new (if I recall, new management took over in January) so it hasn’t quite caught on with the LS crowd. However don’t sleep on this place, it is definitely on my list of places to return to and it is definitely worth the visit. They hold events and are willing to host private LS parties so if you’re looking for a place to have your next event give this place a try.

For me they are the best, the special staff and personalized attention, much respect, affable
Excellent cleaning, even mouthwash in the bathroom, it always has a small meal that you can eat something if you want, it has private rooms and also rooms to share, it has two bars, one inside and one outside, and when I visited this site I feel like I'm at home . Thank you Arnold to you and your team I hope your club is always full. Thank you so much.

Nice, clean and smelled good. Had a selection of finger foods available which was nice. Music was not loud as previously reviewed. Diverse music from edm, reggaeton, hip hop and r&b which was appreciated. Met the owner Arnold and he has really put efforts to ensure a great environment. The staff was very respectful, informative and personable. Will def be back and highly recommend.

Best vibes ever !!! My husband and I are now going become a regular this place is the classiest lifestyle club we have ever been to . They have new owners Arnold thanks for everything we couldn’t have felt more at home ! Avi and Michelle are the greatest bartenders !!! Thank you guys for making our experience!

This club is absolutely beautiful. The floor staff is constantly is very productive and attentive by making sure all is going well. The variety events hosted as well as the guest and DJs is very well put together. I will add it's a great place to enjoy as a couple or a single.

The venue was completely remodeled, there is a cool multi person shower in the play area, great bar, good music at a great volume so you could dance, but still hold a conversation. The things that really set this place apart is that everything is super clean, and stylish, and the owners are simply amazing! Best club in South Florida for sure

Can't write enough good things about this gem of a place. It's a fun intimate setting where you can meet everyone and not feel overwhelmed. The owner / hosts are so warm and welcoming! They accepted me in my burning man lifestyle crazy self. and will welcome all as you are. Go!

Great chill atmosphere. Low pressure and good vibes. They also have some great DJs on Thursdays and the weekend.

MY girl, Thyra truly enjoyed and enjoys the experience.

Great people, great staff, amazing time.!

Appears to be permanently closed???? 1-7-23

Great place!

Este lugar me resultó extraordinario desde mi primera vez allí en julio de 2023. Quedé tan fascinada que me prometí algún día ser parte del equipo que provee una experiencia en Defy inolvidable con noches de una ÚNICA VEZ.
Lujo, excelencia, y auténtica atención al cliente son objetivos palpables en esta nueva administración.
Mi club liberal favorito, acompáñame cada sábado y te haré recordar por siempre tu experiencia en este lugar.
Gracias Arnold y Pedro por hacer que Defy sea un lugar asombroso para cualquier ser humano que disfrute ser feliz en libertad.

Excelente lugar! Muy recomendado! Lo mejor de todo la atención que se recibe

Cuando vuelve a funcionar el excelente club

Excelente, estupendo servicio